This week I was reminded of a conversation I had with a
person about what our goals in life were. I wanted to get a degree so
that I could use it to better my career and to find a way to do something that
I loved doing. He wanted to make money. Listening to Guy Kawasaki
discuss passion vs. money I realized that money isn’t everything and that guy
was wrong to put it bluntly. I also
realized that he was never going to be happy.
Our conversation went something like this:
Me: I’m going to school so I can get a degree that will help
me no matter what I do; which will some day be something that I absolutely love
and where it doesn’t feel like a job.
Him: I think I’m going to get my masters or even higher?
Me: do you need it for what you want to do?
Him: I need it for what I do, but I don’t love it.
Me: so why do it?
Him: because I can make good money.
Me: money isn’t everything.
Especially when you hate your job.
You’ll spend 8 hours a day or more doing something that you hate, just so
you can have toys to pay with for 3 hours every night, or less?
Him: yes. Cause I want the big toys- a boat, exotic
vacations, nice house.
Me: why don’t you find something you love doing and get a
job in that field. You can make money in
any field, you just must work for it and network.
Him: I want to watch sports and there aren’t any jobs that
pay enough in sports.
Me: yes, there are- recruiters for colleges and pro teams
can make big bucks, sports agents. You just need to work hard in those jobs and
network with people.
The topic of networking got us on a completely different
topic for another day. But basically,
this man wanted to do everything all on his own, didn’t want to network, and
thought life was all about making money.
Kawasaki’s Porsche was exactly what this man was after, except
he hasn’t realized yet that life isn’t about money. Sure, you can make a lot of money in your
life- there is absolutely nothing wrong with that. But how are you going to use that money? Are you going to use it to have lots of toys
that really bring you no real happiness in the end or are you going to use is
to better the world around you? I have never been one to strive to make a lot of money. I understand the importance of having money, but I guess I am one of the lucky ones who don't value money above happiness and doing something that I love doing.
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